If you’d prefer to be dating Asian women, then I totally understand. Personally, I have been dating Asian women for as long as I can remember, both in the United States and during my trips to Asia, and I’ve come up with a specific set of rules and strategies that you ought to follow if your goal is to get a hot Asian girlfriend (or enjoy dating a variety of hot Asian girls!)
There are some distinct differences in how you should attempt to pick up Western girls, versus Asian girls. When it comes to American and European women, I will often use a “cocky & playful” approach to be a bit of a bad boy — I’ll mess with women and playfully assess them, to let them know I’m really not “impressed” — no matter how sexy they might be. You see, I normally give girls the sense that they have to impress ME.
This means you don’t her questions directly (instead of giving a direct answer, play it off with a joke); never asking HER the normal queries (“so what’s your name,” “where are you from,” etc), and instead using creative conversation techniques to keep things flowing; and it also means teasing women and “busting on them” from time to time. Not in a callous, disrespectful way, but in a playful style that implies something very important to her: that you’re not a typical guy who is hoping to impress her and “win” her.|One way to do this is to never answer a girl’s questions directly. Rather, you always deflect her questions with jokes (i.e. “What do I do for a living? I’m a lion tamer.”)
It also means you’re not asking her the usual, predictable questions (such as “where are you from,” etc.) You always want to use creative conversation tactics with Western girls, and this means turning the tables and playfully teasing on them. This demonstrates that you’re absolutely not an average dude.
So the question is, should you look at dating Asian women the same way? The answer is, in some cases you will use a similar style of flirting. But there are some modifications you will need to make to your “game.”
Asian women are different, and a lot of this has to do with their society and upbringing. When they were growing up, there’s no doubt they watched a ton of “romantic serials” on television. (In the united states, we call them “soap operas.”) The plot of these shows invariably has to do with a handsome, sensitive guy who is madly in love with a girl, but there are challenges that he must overcome.
Often, the storylineinvolves a desperately attempting to “win” the girl, but she keeps turning him down — and so he keeps itrying until he does something remarkable to “touch her heartIn the end, she finally relents and they share a passionate kiss and embrace, and presumably live happily ever after (blah, blah).
This stuff may sound corny to you, but Asian women are raised to believe in it. And so, they expect men to “court” them.
Sure, there are less-traditional Asian girls who go for “bad boys.” But most well-raised Asian women would rather die than bring any shame on their families, so they would never be seen in public with a guy who wears grungy clothes and is covered with tattoos (no matter how “cool” other women might think he is).
This also means you cannot act like some wanna-be “pickup artist,” using “lines” on her and immediately flirting with her in a sexual way.
Indeed, the rules of attraction and seduction do change a bit when you are dating asian women.
I do recommend paying an Asian woman a compliment on her dress, or how nice she looks. With American women, I don’t advise you to do this. (They take this as a sign that you’re just another desperate guy trying to hook up with them.) Asian women, however, because they are so wonderfully feminine and take pride in how they look at all times, will be genuinely appreciative of a sincere compliment.
(She might blush and act shy when you do it, but she’ll be flattered and touched.)
It’s also really important for you to demonstrate masculine behavior (i.e. “be the man”) when you are with Asian women. One thing we all love about Asian women is their femininity. It’s one of the things we all appreciate most about Asian women: they are totally feminine in nature and appearance. (Unlike American women, who have been taught to try to “wear the pants” in a relationship, and will go out in public wearing a baseball cap and baggy clothes. You won’t see Asian women dressing this way — my Asian girlfriend used to spend an hour doing her hair and makeup just to go out and run errands! And they always look amazing…)
I can explain to you exactly how to project a masculine “energy” that Asian women are magnetically attracted to. Just visit our Dating Asian Women site and learn these tips, plus much more, and within no time you can be attracting and dating the beautiful Asian girls you’ve been dreaming about.