Do You Want Him To Respect You…Or Cherish You?

“The most significant detail is to have a gentleman regard me!”  Ellie proclaimed. 

“Do you want a gentleman to cherish your emotions?”  I questioned.

“Of course.  I want that far too,”  Ellie extra.

“Fantastic.  Remain one and consider two lovers.”

If you want to be revered and sense cherished in a intimate relationship, you will want two partners. 

A person can regard your strategies and follow your lead.  The other can cherish your emotions and make the options.

See?  You can have it all.

Just not at the same time.

Or with the same person.

(Except he’s a “doormat” who would not have a voice.  Or is soooo spineless.  Ewww.)

In a intimate relationship, the finest intimacy is promoted when one particular lover feels cherished for emotions and the other is revered for thoughts.

If you want to be revered for your thinking AND cherished for your emotions, there is … Read More